I can’t say I am a genius on those subjects but I would like to express my thoughts with you. Since I am new on that bear with me and any recommendations will be much appreciated.

There is a lot of analysis on this subject but let’s get started with the ‘easy one’.

Death: Is an unexpected event which occurs out of nowhere.People often discuss the subject of death from different points of view. For example, where are we heading after our death? Is there life after death? Who controls that? Obviously, I can’t answer these questions, but when you lose someone, especially someone who matters to you it hurts and it hurts a lot. We have accidents, sickness and certain events that bring death and they are out of our hands. Some can argue that death is a natural stage in someone's life. I start we death because I mention there are certain types of death coming up, the difference with a divorce is that people can do everything to avoid getting a divorce.

Divorce: Again an unexpected or expected event which most of the time occur due to the lack of communication. I have a different approach to marriage, I am one of those guys who just doesn't get it when it comes to marriage. Let me explain, so we living in a society were from 0 up to 22-25 years old you are in educating yourself to get a job. Then you have to find a job and then you get married then maybe get a divorce. Ok, sometimes It works out! The problem here is that people don’t actually LIVE or rather forget to LIVE.

Back to the title ;)

Both ways you ended up by losing someone. Death you can’t do anything about it. Divorce, the result is in your hands. Losing someone is a difficult situation especially if you have this ‘monkey’ in your mind coming up every single time and reminds you the great moments you had with him/her.

On a death situation you can’t bring him/her back you only have the memories in your mind.

On a divorce situation since you know the other guy is still around you can catch up if you are not selfish enough, but again depends on what happened and you ended up with a divorce.

My conclusion is that death and divorce is the same when it comes to psychology factor of losing someone who was part of your life. The main difference is on the divorce situation you can change the outcome of it, on death situation you can't do anything about it.

I am waiting for your comments and thoughts. Thank you very much for your time.